little_tippler

Starkizzer, sounds like you have a keeper there! An hour? That is dedicated right there. I don't think it's a question of time, it's a question of practice. The better you both know your body the easier it will become over time. I never used to be able to and then it happened. To me it was really down to the right combination of clitoral and g-spot stimulation. Maybe you can work on your clit while he takes care of the g.

I suggest you pee beforehand to make sure your bladder isn't under pressure. Also, when you feel the peeing sensation, are you fighting it, so you won't pee? Because it may just be that you need to let yourself go. I doubt you will pee. Who knows, you may squirt! Try to stop thinking about possibly peeing and try and just concentrate on good sensations you are having.

And also, try it on your own first. Always easier once you know yourself what you need to get there.

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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918