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Originally Posted by jewels
Strange excuses are an indication that she's having second thoughts or simply has something better to do.
Referring to a lady as a broad (even if it's not in front of her) would seem to indicate disrespect for women. Perhaps she senses this and lost interest? Or it could be that she found you interesting at first glance and kissed you to see if she sensed a chemistry with you. Whatever the reason, she's not that into you either.
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I don't use broad pejoratively and I'm pretty sure it's not even a pejorative word. They have broad hips. They are broads. I'm not disrespectful. I did the typical flirtation device, i.e. start very simply with eye contact and making jokes, move on to light touching and teasing, then step it up a bit to more to-the-point things.
I'm thinkin you're right about the "something better to do" bit. She reached out to me, though, about four days ago and said that she wants to go to the new brewery with me and for me to let her know when I'm going (I had said that I'd probably be going some time this week). You can see where I'm getting confused.
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Spend some time polishing up a bit and be sure you don't come off as desperate by finding some interests that you can talk about.
And I offer this advice to any who's come from or returned to a previously failed relationship: Take some time off, away from intimate relationships, so that you can spend some real time looking within yourself without the shield and are able to finally put the failed relationship behind you. Every time I decide I don't need to do that, I walk away from another, realizing I didn't take the time I truly needed to move on without the baggage. Do it for the sake of any potential future relationship you may screw up 'cause you thought you needed a relationship to forget the one before.
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thanks. Yeah, I did that since January. I'm over the ex now happily, I'm honestly just fishing around a bit for some fun.