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Old 07-20-2009, 08:35 AM   #9 (permalink)
Willravel
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What do you consider a healthy relationship?
In a healthy relationship, all parties are honest with each other and themselves, and all parties derive an honest overall joy and/or fulfillment from the relationship.

How much sex does it involve?
If we're talking a romantic relationship, I'd say more than none. If it's not a romantic relationship, it doesn't matter.

Does it include marriage?
It can, though the lifetime commitment of marriage can be somewhat unrealistic.

Do you find you're able to develop a better relationship with the opposite sex or the same sex?
Romantic? Opposite, big time. Platonic? It doesn't really matter.

Have you ever been in a truly healthy relationship, or do you just dream?
I guess. Honestly, being in a relationship like that makes it difficult to have the objectivity to really judge it. If you're too objective, you're possibly distant and/or guarded.

Do you feel you're capable of having a healthy relationship?
Everyone is. I am a part of everyone, therefore I am.

If you have a healthy one, do you feel obligated to share your secrets on keeping a healthy relationship with your friends who ask how you do it?
I can't imagine why not.
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