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Old 07-20-2009, 06:26 AM   #60 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by zyxw View Post
Hello GCF, I hope all is well. I find this request of your boyfriend to be quite interesting...

I have a specific recommendation: Demonstrate your loyalty to him by fulfilling his request, and performing whatever action he requests of you, in accordance with his instruction. This will strengthen your relationship, demonstrate for him the extent of your commitment, and show him you truly care.

At the optimal time, ask him to lie down on his back. Undress yourself from the waste down, position yourself on top of him facing the opposite direction, spread your legs somewhat, and begin the process as he observes... He may wish to observe your opening, as it widens slightly, and a waste product is produced.

Very interesting...


Remember, demonstrate your loyalty through your willingness to perform any action he requests of you: This will be beneficial to your relationship with him.


---------- Post added at 03:18 AM ---------- Previous post was at 02:48 AM ----------

If I were with a woman, and the woman's loyalty and commitment to me were insufficient to perform such an action at my request in a private setting, I would reconsider my continued relationship with this woman: I would likely find this refusal unnacceptable, as I would expect more of the woman that is, supposedly committed to me.

I would expect the woman that is for me to be highly committed; In turn I would desire to demonstrate this commitment for her, with respect to her interests, and would desire to satisfy her desires.


---------- Post added at 04:01 AM ---------- Previous post was at 03:18 AM ----------

Hello, GCF. I hope all is well. I wish you the best of luck in your continued endeavor of strengthening, maintaining and progressing in your relationship with your boyfriend. As many of us desire, I hope your relationship progresses smoothly and leads to marriage, in a highly committed context, characterized by loyalty, respect and commitment for each other. I wish the best for you.

I am a 24 yr M. Perhaps I will share my perspective, in regard to a committed relationship with a female:

The woman that is for me, is a woman I desire to be highly committed to... As such, I will have what I consider to be, reasonable expectations of her... As I will consider her to be very important and highly special to me, I will desire to please her with respect to her interests, desires and fantasies, to the extent I am able; I will expect of her that she reciprocate this high level of commitment. She and I shall be, on very close, highly personal speaking terms, where we may express to each other any interest we might have without hesitation or fear our expression will not be respected: A level of certainty and trust will exist between us, that we both shall be aware, such a possibility need not be of concern, for we shall be, highly committed to each other.

No disrespect, GCF: The level of commitment you have demonstrated to your boyfriend in regard to this matter falls short: Short to such an extent, I would consider it to be highly unacceptable, if I were with you.

I wish you the best of luck GCF: I hope your relationship progresses steadily in a manner characterized by loyalty and commitment. It is my hope the two of you will come together, and satisfactorily resolve your differences.

I wish you the best of results,
-zyxw
So if the converse were true that your woman would have those same "reasonable expectations." If that meant taking it up the ass either by strap on or male on male sex, it's something you'd fairly have to consider as well right?
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