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^^ Why are you awake by the way and you should totally go for the sellout route. GG I have nothing to add seeing as the questions you pose no man can possibly answer but a question of my own.
The phrase, "Did you tell her how you feel?" is key in any therapeutic situation revolving around broken hearts and mending wounds but communication isn't as easy as many make it out to be.
When one end believes the other is darth vader and the other satan how is communication going to fix that? When is the best time to sit down and say, "Honey, I don't like it when you poop with the bathroom door open". When does tact come in and if we are talking about tact then are we saying that people still play games even after they're married? (Assuming marriage is the pinnacle of a relationship)
Another one is what I like to think of a "meta"-phrase. "We both work hard in this relationship"/"We should work hard in this". Just WTF does that mean? "Work hard". What is it to work? How do you "work" towards someone who seems jaded with you? How do you 'fix' a relationship by "working" on it? What is it to "work"? I always thought it's just there or it isn't. You either get along or you don't. I've always felt that if you married someone well beyond 15 minutes that you met them and they turn out to be a different person then no amount of communication will help.
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