Yeah, just g-spot, never had that. Is that possible? Would love to hear from ladies who have been able. But I generally think orgasms of any kind generate from stimulation of several places, and not just one. I've had what I consider a g-spot orgasm coupled with clit stimulation. They vary from awesome to explosive. Not sure what I do to make them better some times and not at others, but it's always good.
I suggest you try and get one on your own first then work on showing your boyfriend. Have you tried doing it while watching something visually stimulating? Just an idea. May help push you over the edge. You say you get tired...if you close your eyes when you're close and don't worry so much about the effort you're having to put in, maybe you can concentrate on the sensations and just keeping going until you reach it.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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