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Old 07-17-2009, 07:49 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Thank you.

I have a solution in place! I called her betrothed and asked him to encourage her to come to me, if he felt like it. I explained what I thought the problems were, and how I believe they could be fixed. I included him, and ensured him I would continue to. I was concrete and brief, yet of course he knew it was emotional. His thanks were heartfelt. Although the problem was never with him, I think he liked that I included him in an important way that meant something.

See there - Im growing up, and I always come back to love.

Thank you again. Especially you, Cynthetiq with your gentle answer (seems unusual for you and me. I appreciate it.)

Peace.
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