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If it's causing you pain, and won't go away, then clearly you do need to talk to her, no matter what will come of it. If there are more hurt feelings, so be it. You can deal with that after this. Also, if you can't resolve a problem together, even after talking it through several times to let it out, chances are, it has no resolution. Sorry. I hope you can work this out and put the hurt behind you. Feel better soon! :hugs:
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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