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thespian86 · 07-09-2009, 01:36 PM

Through other people.

I know this is my stock answer but I'll expand this time:

The best way to meet girls is through other people. The likelihood that you'll randomly bump into someone and 2 hours later be having the conversation of a lifetime is pretty slim. So I'd suggest a different approach. And I know no one will listen to me but you should. Because, bluntly, I have lots and lots of sex. With attractive girls. And I'm not particularly attractive. Here we go:

Things happen from the ground up, or in other words, you can't start at the top. People are usually stuck because they are lacking as a well-rounded human being. I would argue that many men and women work on perfecting a single issue in hopes of that being enough ('once I lose all this weight...', 'i'll buy a new wardrobe and then', 'i'll join a shit load of clubs and meet a shit load of ladies...'). It's unnatural. And like anything in life that you try to force, you'll ultimately fail in one way or another. People don't realize this but this backward approach to your personal life (ie: living for others) is THE PYRAMID SCHEME OF LIFE.

So. Do shit you like. Not shit you should like, but stuff that makes you genuinely content. Go to bars that have music you dig, not girls you dig. Go to places with things you love. Make it a conscious effort to further yourself. I know, it won't get you laid right away or married instantly (which ever you are hoping for in the end). But it will lead to great rewards. like the following:

- You'll like yourself.
- You'll like your life.
- You'll meet people who like the life you lead too, because they are leading a similar one.
- You won't be in situations where you fear being caught or outed.
- No need for dishonesty or games.
- etc.

I know that sounds like a lot of hard work which you don't want to do because you're lazy. But guys and gals, life is tough. And to get the best things, you need to put in the hard work. Want a model, then earn it. Want a wife who's a lawyer and cooks, earn it. Be someone worthy of them, and they can be someone worthy of you.

To end this rant I'll answer the question again and say "through friends". But I think the issue runs deeper then that.

For the record: This isn't directed at you Squeeeb but the general public that has the same problems you are citing here. And every single one of these conversations ends with this message being ignored. Someone have faith in being a human being please. It's driving me fucking insane. Seriously.

07-09-2009, 01:36 PM	#12 (permalink)
thespian86 change is hard. Location: the green room.	Through other people. I know this is my stock answer but I'll expand this time: The best way to meet girls is through other people. The likelihood that you'll randomly bump into someone and 2 hours later be having the conversation of a lifetime is pretty slim. So I'd suggest a different approach. And I know no one will listen to me but you should. Because, bluntly, I have lots and lots of sex. With attractive girls. And I'm not particularly attractive. Here we go: Things happen from the ground up, or in other words, you can't start at the top. People are usually stuck because they are lacking as a well-rounded human being. I would argue that many men and women work on perfecting a single issue in hopes of that being enough ('once I lose all this weight...', 'i'll buy a new wardrobe and then', 'i'll join a shit load of clubs and meet a shit load of ladies...'). It's unnatural. And like anything in life that you try to force, you'll ultimately fail in one way or another. People don't realize this but this backward approach to your personal life (ie: living for others) is THE PYRAMID SCHEME OF LIFE. So. Do shit you like. Not shit you should like, but stuff that makes you genuinely content. Go to bars that have music you dig, not girls you dig. Go to places with things you love. Make it a conscious effort to further yourself. I know, it won't get you laid right away or married instantly (which ever you are hoping for in the end). But it will lead to great rewards. like the following: - You'll like yourself. - You'll like your life. - You'll meet people who like the life you lead too, because they are leading a similar one. - You won't be in situations where you fear being caught or outed. - No need for dishonesty or games. - etc. I know that sounds like a lot of hard work which you don't want to do because you're lazy. But guys and gals, life is tough. And to get the best things, you need to put in the hard work. Want a model, then earn it. Want a wife who's a lawyer and cooks, earn it. Be someone worthy of them, and they can be someone worthy of you. To end this rant I'll answer the question again and say "through friends". But I think the issue runs deeper then that. For the record: This isn't directed at you Squeeeb but the general public that has the same problems you are citing here. And every single one of these conversations ends with this message being ignored. Someone have faith in being a human being please. It's driving me fucking insane. Seriously. __________________ EX: Whats new? ME: I officially love coffee more then you now. EX: uh... ME: So, not much.