I'd try once, clearly to discuss the subject, and give her all your motivations the one you just did:
Did I hurt her somehow? What does she mean "can't enjoy a sex life?" etc.
Don't bring up the subject.
TALK directly about the subject.
Tell her you would like to discuss it just once to put these troubles to rest. But also make it clear that if she honestly doesn't want to discuss it, that you'll respect her wishes.
At least then she will know you're fretting about this.
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