Calm yourself Squeeb; he's twenty and would still be in tons of situations, especially if he's involved with community stuff, where he would be around girls this age. I worked at a camp, and I'm in community theatre when I go home for the holidays/summer. I have lots of little chorus girls that I care about in a friendly way - they are pretty, sweet, talented girls who in a few years'll be knock outs probably - chasing me around, giggling whenever I make a joke, being huggy, etc.
Here's how I deal with it: I don't. What's the point? Like squeeb said it'll be over in three weeks. I'm not going to touch them, and they are 16 year old girls so they aren't going to force themselves on me. I can deal with being giggled over. If it became serious, where someone was acting inappropriately, I would sit them down and have a straight to the point, stern talk about where the line is. Other then that, don't fix what's not broken. Unless of course, and this is what I suspect, you find this girl attractive which is a different story. Don't listen to anyone who says "you're a douchebag for thinking a 16 year old is cute". When I was 20, I was still in that "trying to get out of high school mindset" phase. So think away. At 23 I've grown out of loving getting any girls attention, and seeking the attention of a few women.
It sounds like you won't cross the line, so leave it be. It'll disappear quickly.
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