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Originally Posted by Hyacinthe
Talk to the other person abut what they expect from the relationship - if like me you're a sub you do have to be careful about this. You have to be able to trust the other person to respect your limits and know enough about the equipment they are using and how much damage it will really do. Last thing you want is for them to synch a strap wrong and dislocate your shoulder or jaw, and that's at the best at worst it could be an improperly arranged love swing and you could suffocate ( yes that has happened - obviously not to me though). You can't afford any of that online bending of the truth that so often happens on chat rooms when it could effect your physical, mental and emotional safety permanently.
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This is very true. I wish everyone would be more careful about who they meet online, especially with dom/sub relationships because they can get out of control pretty easily.
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Originally Posted by Halanna
If you are not using a safe word, then you are not in a true Dom/sub relationship.
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+1
As for the OP: remember that in this type of a relationship, you are in charge so do what you want. He is there to please you. Make sure you keep the lines of communication open but beyond that, just have fun. Don't be afraid to punish him if he deserves it!
