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I guess really its kind of that you need to talk about it with her and let her know how you feel and that you are attracted to her.
It could be that she doesnt have as high as a sex drive as you and if thats true somehow you maybe both have to reconcile to each others position to a degree.
Or it could well be she has some issues around sex or her own confidence in herself that she needs to work through and which may be difficult.
Without meaning to be harsh at all, you both have to accept that it is a big issue I think, because if two people in a relationship have a very fundamental difference in there need for sex, that isnt a good basis for the long term.
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