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Originally Posted by jimmy1s269
im with you dude. going on a month long dry spell here. only 4 times since the beginning of the year.
I have been trying the no butt grabs hands off approach since the beginning of the year, something she told me might get me laid more often. not only have i not gotten laid more, i dont even think she has noticed how much i have kept my hands to myself.
i have no advice for you brother. hang in there. they say it will get better eventually. rumor has it she might have a sexual awakening when shes like.... 40.
13 years to go, i think i can make it. *cry*
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I'm in the same boat as you guys. My wife is the same age as yours and has no interest in sex at all. The rare times we do have it she is just doing it for me and sighs and tells me to just finish and get it over with.
She did start taking Lexapro as well, but depression killed her sex drive too. I'm trying to be supportive and not grope/oogle her at every opportunity, but it just makes us even more distance physically.
I love her and am not going to cheat or leave her, but I have seen the "casual encounters" section on craigslist and wished things were different.
edit: Sorry to bring up a month old thread, saw it on the front page and hadn't checked the date!