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Hyacinthe · 05-12-2009, 05:51 AM

Girls / Ladies it's fantastic that you all have such great sex lives but hardly helping the OP - infact if anything you're probably just making her feel more alienated and as though there's something wrong with her.

There isn't btw dd3953 - about 10% of women are born completely without a g-spot making intercourse boring or plain unpleasant. If clitoral stimulation doesn't help then I'm inclined to think you're either not getting enough foreplay and therefore a lack or nerve sensitivity is ruining things for you or you're over thinking matters.

Ametc had a great idea with the stimulation gel - if it is lack of foreplay that should help. Any sex store should have something similar - try a gel or a spray if they have it as opposed to a cream since that will spread onto him as well and increase his sensitivity to and might end things a tad prematurely.

If that doesn't work try having a glass of wine or two (or whatever alcohol you like) about 30 - 45 minutes before you think you'll be heading to bed. Might help shut down your brain, I wouldn't advise more then that since a large amount of alcohol could possibly make things harder. Course I am a randy drunk so that might not help you at all worth trying though.

If that doesn't work you could try stimulating yourself mentally as opposed to physically - what DOES turn you on? Nipple play, fetish stuff (S&M / Pony play etc), reading material, movies, voyeurism, exhibitionism - figure out what you like and play to your strengths.

Other then that I am afraid I can't really think of much - you could try anal to if you're open to the idea - maybe it's just vaginal penetration that doesn't effect you?

Hope one of those ideas will help though.

05-12-2009, 05:51 AM	#20 (permalink)
Hyacinthe Psycho Location: Australia	Girls / Ladies it's fantastic that you all have such great sex lives but hardly helping the OP - infact if anything you're probably just making her feel more alienated and as though there's something wrong with her. There isn't btw dd3953 - about 10% of women are born completely without a g-spot making intercourse boring or plain unpleasant. If clitoral stimulation doesn't help then I'm inclined to think you're either not getting enough foreplay and therefore a lack or nerve sensitivity is ruining things for you or you're over thinking matters. Ametc had a great idea with the stimulation gel - if it is lack of foreplay that should help. Any sex store should have something similar - try a gel or a spray if they have it as opposed to a cream since that will spread onto him as well and increase his sensitivity to and might end things a tad prematurely. If that doesn't work try having a glass of wine or two (or whatever alcohol you like) about 30 - 45 minutes before you think you'll be heading to bed. Might help shut down your brain, I wouldn't advise more then that since a large amount of alcohol could possibly make things harder. Course I am a randy drunk so that might not help you at all worth trying though. If that doesn't work you could try stimulating yourself mentally as opposed to physically - what DOES turn you on? Nipple play, fetish stuff (S&M / Pony play etc), reading material, movies, voyeurism, exhibitionism - figure out what you like and play to your strengths. Other then that I am afraid I can't really think of much - you could try anal to if you're open to the idea - maybe it's just vaginal penetration that doesn't effect you? Hope one of those ideas will help though. __________________ "I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken... and the one that could brighten up your day even if she couldnt brighten her own" "Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."