I know some male subs enjoy orgasm denial. You could try that.
If this is new to you, having a "safe word" is important. Traffic light colors work well.
From Wiki:
Green, yellow and red
Some partners have different gradations of safeword — such as green to mean "OK" or even "harder" or "more," yellow to mean "slow down" or "stop doing that" without stopping the scene, and red to mean "let's stop the scene".
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