There are two ways for a girl to be "out of your league." First, she thinks you are. Women who think this way tend to be self-centered, high-maintenance, and the type to think being hot is enough and just lay there in bed while you do all the work.
Second, you think you are. You know why it's not going to happen? You're not trying!
Yes, there is a science to attraction. Yes, you can predict with some success the outcome of a guy asking a girl out. But in the end, our efforts to brush natural selection among humans under the rug has leveled the playing field and left many of the facts beyond basics unpredictable. Human attraction is irrational. Sure, you need to have some hygiene, dress decently, and be interesting to attract someone, but how are you going to know their type without trying to get to know them?
Tell your friend to go for it, and if he gets shot down, what's the big deal? If you can't tolerate the word"no," you shouldn't be in the dating pool.
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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru
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The only value to PUA stuff is that it essentially tells you to better yourself and fake it until you make it. Canned lines and cheesy routines work on some people, but they're not the ones you want a relationship with. Honestly, I wouldn't want to be with any of the girls I've seen this stuff work on. You can spot the wannabes from across the bar, and watching them is hilarious.