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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru
There's the rub. If you try to get their attention, they usually won't bite.
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Baraka's... a big playa?
Do you speak from experience, Dr. Feelgood? (j/k)
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Yeah, turns out I don't buy the "they'll come to you thing." At all. It has never worked for me. That's like waiting for someone to give you a winning lottery ticket. I've gone out on a zillion dates so far this year and my common interview question is always: "Would you have initiated contact based on my looks / profile alone?" And the answer is generally no... they prefer the guy to be more aggressive, to ask the question, to show initial interest. Statement is backed up the limitations of a tiny sample size and only my personal experience, but hey... seems to be common for a lot of guys, right? Hard to get = fun.
I believe women like to be coy because it's sexy. And they're onto something with that.