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I have made it a rule not to get involved in friend's relationships anymore. Generally, if you don't say what the person wants to hear, the words said are lost. But, this situation is just troubling.

My friend E has a boyfriend that is just all-around creepy. He checks out other women constantly and is blatant about it going as far as making lewd comments. He puffs out his chest like he's proving his manhood and protecting his property, E, whenever other men are close by. He has gone as far as encouraging her to gain weight to discourage other men from looking at her. She was a gorgeous woman and is still attractive, but has let herself go because of this creep. Not only has she put on weight, but she doesn't do her hair or make-up anymore and has traded in her trendy clothes for frumpy sweats.

He has made comments to me about how good I look and asking if I ever stripped because he thinks I'd be good at it. He even talked about one of his buddies having a pole for women to practice on. The whole time E is standing there feeling like shit. I told him that he was being disrespectful.

They came over once when we had a get together and she had to ask his permission to do anything (i.e. drink, go in the other room with me, play a game, etc). He stared down all the other men, checked out the other women, and refused to speak unless it was a short, lewd comment. It was quite uncomfortable, but I was glad that I wasn't alone in my opinion of this guy.

Have you experienced guys like this? Have you been in or experienced second-hand a relationship like this? What are you thoughts?

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