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Ugh, this won't end well. Way too many issues to juggle and when the citizenship / money / "marriage" card enters... it's a real minefield.
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Marriage is kinda like religion: only means as much as you personally invest in it. Yes, it is a piece paper and yet it is so much more if you treat it as such.
If you have any doubts, don't do it.
I would recommend against it because of all of the pressure factors involved. Such pressure makes for a fragile marriage.
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Love isn't face-sucking or awesome sex... love is shoveling horseshit for months, love is cold and remote and durable like a steel basket.
Love, if ya boil it down, really sucks. There is a weird alchemy to it, though... often it is that the more you put into it, the more you get.
Last edited by Plan9; 04-23-2009 at 08:53 AM..
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