sounds to me like she's body conscious more than anything. she needs to be comfortable with herself before she can be comfortable with anyone else. I don't really know how to change that.. it would help if she would could use a toy on her own without you around; maybe dress up for herself anything really. She needs to feel sexy about herself and she doesn't.. and that could be a whole list of issues.
the only other reason I could think of is if she had some traumatic experience earlier in life.. a bad boyfriend or something.
best of luck to ya.
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