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woohog1 · 04-22-2009, 09:37 AM

ladies and gentlemen I have a question to ask. but before I do a little background.
When my wife and I make love, it is usually (in my opinion) a hassle for her. She is the kind that would just like to sit on the couch and watch a movie and then cuddle for a few minutes before drifting off to sleep. When I ask her why I feel like sex is a chore, or hassle she doesnt say a word or just brushes it off like she doesnt want to talk about it. When she is finally in the mood, like after the dishes are done and the entire house has been vaccumed, and bills filed(that was a joke) it has to be lights off, under the covers, with her shirt on, hands holding her shirt down and there cannot be any talking or noise made. When ever I ask "does this feel good?" or "am I doing that right?" she says shut up, I cant get off when you talk, or what have I said about talking? Its not so much that I need to talk, but I want to make sure she likes it. Any suggestions? Tips that I can use to maybe get her to open up. I dont want it too seem like such a big deal, sex should be fun, not strict or rigid (unless your into that kind of thing)
Also one more question... Often times, I will eat her out and I love to do that, but she refuses to even so much as look at my cock. She wont touch it, hold it, nothing. I dont want to sound ungreatful, but I have taken a shower, I even used sope and it wasnt a saturday. I keep the area neat, no sores or lint at all, but she kinda makes me think it is gross. I have approached the issue of a blowjob, and she just says shes not comfortable with the idea. We have been married for almost 2 years, will be 2 years in june. Im just not sure what is going on. When i try to talk to her about it, again she just gives me the look, or says she is working on it. Any tips/ suggestions would be appreciated. lastly let me say this. I really do love my wife, I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but after almost two years, I would like at least one blowjob. seriously though, this is a problem and I need a little advice from others, thanks and sorry for the length of this thread.
woohog1

04-22-2009, 09:37 AM	#1 (permalink)
woohog1 Crazy Location: Arkansas	Not sure whats up ladies and gentlemen I have a question to ask. but before I do a little background. When my wife and I make love, it is usually (in my opinion) a hassle for her. She is the kind that would just like to sit on the couch and watch a movie and then cuddle for a few minutes before drifting off to sleep. When I ask her why I feel like sex is a chore, or hassle she doesnt say a word or just brushes it off like she doesnt want to talk about it. When she is finally in the mood, like after the dishes are done and the entire house has been vaccumed, and bills filed(that was a joke) it has to be lights off, under the covers, with her shirt on, hands holding her shirt down and there cannot be any talking or noise made. When ever I ask "does this feel good?" or "am I doing that right?" she says shut up, I cant get off when you talk, or what have I said about talking? Its not so much that I need to talk, but I want to make sure she likes it. Any suggestions? Tips that I can use to maybe get her to open up. I dont want it too seem like such a big deal, sex should be fun, not strict or rigid (unless your into that kind of thing) Also one more question... Often times, I will eat her out and I love to do that, but she refuses to even so much as look at my cock. She wont touch it, hold it, nothing. I dont want to sound ungreatful, but I have taken a shower, I even used sope and it wasnt a saturday. I keep the area neat, no sores or lint at all, but she kinda makes me think it is gross. I have approached the issue of a blowjob, and she just says shes not comfortable with the idea. We have been married for almost 2 years, will be 2 years in june. Im just not sure what is going on. When i try to talk to her about it, again she just gives me the look, or says she is working on it. Any tips/ suggestions would be appreciated. lastly let me say this. I really do love my wife, I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but after almost two years, I would like at least one blowjob. seriously though, this is a problem and I need a little advice from others, thanks and sorry for the length of this thread. woohog1 __________________ God created man, Sam Colt made them equal.