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Well I only speak from my own experience. I guess I'm such an exacting bitch, I won't let a guy I consider to be a selfish jerk or a douchebag within 10 paces, let alone within kissing range. So my pre-observations and judgments have been successful for me in gauging sexual compatibility. (not so much in other areas, unfortunately)
I suppose this is one reason why I have always tended to be attracted to older men. Older men are likely to be more skilled in bed, more sure of their kinks and more interested in your pleasure.
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce
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