Shaindra

Related to the "making a man wait" thread, I've been having an on-going debate with some female friends about finding the right man. They're all of the "make him wait" mode, feeling that they want to establish a firm emotional connection before venturing into the bedroom. While I'm not one of the "fuck him on the first date" types, I do feel like I want to know if we're physically compatible almost *before* I begin to feel an emotional connection because a good physical relationship is that important to me.

But am I taking the risk of being put in the "casual sexual relationship" category where I might have otherwise made it into the "real relationship potential" category had I waited? Do guys really make that assessment about women who have sex sooner?

And what about the risk of sex *causing* the emotional connection to someone who might not be otherwise suitable?

What say you?

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