| Im 29 and my first thought was No !!!!!!!!!!   40 is too old for 21 ,  I think ,  youre in way too different stages of life ,  you need someone youngerwith less baggage, if that exists,  someone who has things in common with you, at least to a good extent ,  older men sometimes act like their the big
 man, mr know it all, and oh hah hah you have so much to learn my little tulip .  men that age who are after women youre age just want to sleep with someone younger ,
 with less baggage and knowledge of what some men can be like ,  you dont have to date someone the exact same age as you are to be happy with them
 but.......in my experience,  when I was 21 I should have dated men in their 20's,  be young, have fun ,  and if you want to get married and have kids you want
 to settle down with someone who wont croak too much sooner than you do .  I always dated older men but there is a point where it is too old,
 when you go out in public you dont want those stares and weird looks, trust me, you dont.
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