Pleasure takes time. You have to learn what makes the person tick; what works or doesn't. You have to understand moods and nuances, unspoken language. You simply will not know all this on the first try, but that is not to say that the first time is a waste. It's a starting point. Just be patient and realize that it's a step toward better times.
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Our truest life is when we are in our dreams awake.
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