Speak with him about how you're feeling. Consistently. When he starts slacking off, let him know that you need a little help. Habits like remembering to clean are difficult to develop. It takes a trained eye to even realize something needs to be done. If he's willing to keep working at it, you need to be willing to keep reminding him.
Yeah. Children make things complicated. I have none, so I don't have any advice.
Been married a little less than a year. My husband enjoys cooking and cleans when he sees a need. I feel incredibly lucky.
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