Yeah, unfortunately, because you have hinted many times at the fact that you want her to lose weight, its going to push her away and make her feel VERY self-concious about herself. My ex wasn't happy with the weight I had gained since we got together (about 35 lbs overweight), but instead of hinting at the fact that he wanted me to lose it, he just stopped wanting to touch me. Its a major blow to a girl's self esteem...and to be honest, because of all that, the moment another guy was flirting with me and wanted me (for the way that I was) it made me wander. I'm not proud for cheating, but the fact that I wasn't good enough for my man, made it hard to not. Especially since we haden't even had sex in over half a year. Don't make the same mistake he did. I don't know how you can un-do what you did...its going to take a long while for her to truly believe you when you say she looks good.
