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If it works, go with it.
Sounds like you're communicating well, sounds like you're having fun.
I'll gladly choose a healthy relationship that offers stability and comfort when the other option offers nothing more substantial than infatuation.
What it comes down to is what you prefer.
Do you enjoy spending hours discussing anything, spending years together with new things to say every day? Do you enjoy the security that comes along with feeling like you know someone completely - and revel in the challenge of finding a way to surprize them?
Are you the kind of person who grows more attracted to someone over time, or are you concerned the little attraction that you share will be snuffed out with constant interaction?
I honestly think that a relationship as you describe is likely to be a wild success, but it is entirely contingent upon the temperament of those involved.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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