I don't believe in establishing rules and timelines, nor do I assume sex on the first date is an *automatic* deal-breaker. My most serious relationship to date started with sex on the first date. It's not usually a good idea, though, but if it feels right, it's all good.
The advice doesn't bother me, per se. There's plenty of bad advice out there. I just chose to ignore it.
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