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Communication is 'the imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions, or information by speech, writing, or signs.'

Whenever people are having problems, suggestions typically involve communicating openly with one another. However, what if the problem is communication?

As I've been working through issues, I have become aware of my poor communication skills. I grew up in a family that never listens to anyone because they are trying to get their point across and will shout over anyone to say it. I have been away from them for several years now and have worked on being a better communicator. When visiting, I now just listen to them because it's less exhausting than playing the one-up game.

What I find even more frustrating is when people are indirect. If people would be succinct and say what they mean, communication would be easier.

A friend asked me where I wanted to eat and I suggested an Italian restaurant. Afterwards, she seemed upset so I asked her what was up. She said that she really wanted me to try the hamburgers at a new restaurant. I told her that if that's what she wanted she should have been direct and said, "Hey, a new restaurant opened and they have the best hamburgers, let's go." Instead she dropped small hints and then became upset when I didn't read her mind.

I spent many years being indirect. I missed out on many things that I wanted to do and let many people make decisions for me. I also frustrated the hell out of JJ because he had to keep asking for clarification and I would just repeat myself.

Communication is something that always has room for improvement.

Do you practice on your communication skills? If so, how?

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