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Ok...
I'm really sorry but I can't help but to see the similarities here.
Rabbits.
You take a rabbit that has lived several years of its life in one cage, without any chance to roam. You take that rabbit and you think you're going to do it a favor. You place it in a field that's covered in clover. You think the rabbit will have fun hopping around. The rabbit has a heart attack. This really happens. It happened to a friend of mine who took a "retired" rabbit that had lived the first 5 years of its life in a cage in an elementary school classroom.
Too much unexpected stimulus, you're going to panic.
A child is no different.
Expose them to change, they will be able to handle it.
Surround them regularly with new environments and new people, they will make sense of it. They will be more comfortable with the change later in life.
I don't understand why people hover over their children. Maybe it would make more sense if I had a child rather than a pet rabbit. A pet rabbit, by the way, who loves to roam in fields of clover.
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