What do you get out of this advice?
Nothing new.
Are you bothered?
Not really, it sounds like the same old thing.
Do you benefit from it?
Only in that it reminds me to think about my relationship instead of just letting things slide that might need to be dealt with.
Do you find that it plays up to stereotypes?
Definately but only because there are a lot of women out there who use sex to get what they want. Women use sex to get love, men use love to get sex - in general. It's not always that way and shouldn't be that way but it's the norm.
Do you think something entirely different?
Kindof. Be clear with guys as to what you are looking for. Communicate and you'll understand where they're coming from or why they do things. Be open and honest and last but not least... DON'T PLAY GAMES.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
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