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Sherk · 03-24-2009, 08:38 AM

Ok guys,

My wife and I have acquired some toys over the years of being together, however lately she doesn't ever want to use them.

Now, while I feel great that she wants *me*, and not a toy... sometimes it's very hard to get her to orgasm. She has a lot of trouble staying focused (the living situation is difficult, and privacy can be an issue, even if we're in a locked room).

I've tried oral sex, she's able to I'd say 50% of the time, the other half, she pulls me up for the "main event" after 30-45 mins. I've had a decent amount of experience in this arena, and most of the time could accomplish the deed - some girls however just don't seem as responsive as others... my wife being one of them.

She says that she doesn't want to use toys because they either get her off too fast (I don't see this as a terrible problem, wait a while and do it again!), or she feels like she shouldn't be using them.

Now, I have absolutely no problem (hell I'll use 'em on her!), I don't mind, as it's going to give her pleasure. I'm not going to be jealous of an inanimate object... it's not like it's another person.

How do I get her to be more receptive to using toys?

03-24-2009, 08:38 AM	#1 (permalink)
Sherk Upright	Orgasm ability/comfort with alternate methods... Ok guys, My wife and I have acquired some toys over the years of being together, however lately she doesn't ever want to use them. Now, while I feel great that she wants me, and not a toy... sometimes it's very hard to get her to orgasm. She has a lot of trouble staying focused (the living situation is difficult, and privacy can be an issue, even if we're in a locked room). I've tried oral sex, she's able to I'd say 50% of the time, the other half, she pulls me up for the "main event" after 30-45 mins. I've had a decent amount of experience in this arena, and most of the time could accomplish the deed - some girls however just don't seem as responsive as others... my wife being one of them. She says that she doesn't want to use toys because they either get her off too fast (I don't see this as a terrible problem, wait a while and do it again!), or she feels like she shouldn't be using them. Now, I have absolutely no problem (hell I'll use 'em on her!), I don't mind, as it's going to give her pleasure. I'm not going to be jealous of an inanimate object... it's not like it's another person. How do I get her to be more receptive to using toys?