stumped, I sounded like an ass. I apologize.
I really know how it feels when it comes to making a joint decision only to have to follow through by yourself. Nothing of this magnitude of course but I'm hoping you get the drift. You need to get rid of your BF. I'm sorry but he's a fuckin' ASS.
I'm not anti-abortion, really I think abortion should be the option of the lady in question. But I think you should keep the kid. Adoption is the way to go. There are other various options besides keeping and not keeping. Please look into them.
Best of luck.