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Psycho Dad · 03-14-2009, 04:08 PM

I've been married 25 years. My wife literally at one point was twice as heavy as when I met her. It never bothered me half as bad as it did her. While I admit that I perhaps wouldn't seek out a woman as heavy as what she was, I have loved her for so long that I figure our physical deficiencies are part of "for better or worse".

She took up exercise and eating better a few months ago because she wants to lose weight before our cruise in June. I'm tickled to death about it not because of physical appearance sake, but because it will make her healthier and part of my life for at least 25 more years.

If sex in the dark is your biggest problem in your relationship, you are doing OK.

03-14-2009, 04:08 PM	#21 (permalink)
Psycho Dad Mulletproof Location: Some nucking fut house.	I've been married 25 years. My wife literally at one point was twice as heavy as when I met her. It never bothered me half as bad as it did her. While I admit that I perhaps wouldn't seek out a woman as heavy as what she was, I have loved her for so long that I figure our physical deficiencies are part of "for better or worse". She took up exercise and eating better a few months ago because she wants to lose weight before our cruise in June. I'm tickled to death about it not because of physical appearance sake, but because it will make her healthier and part of my life for at least 25 more years. If sex in the dark is your biggest problem in your relationship, you are doing OK. __________________ Don't always trust the opinions of experts.