Starkizzer

As a woman who has been in the same position (almost) as the OP's gf, I figure if your with someone for 7 years your pretty much in it for the long run. If your married shouldn't you be able to tell your partner you want them to be healthy so that you CAN spend a long fulfilling life together? So maybe he didn't go about it in the best way but perhaps he did it with her best interest at heart shouldn't that count for something?

Sure I was pissed as hell when I first found out my honey wasn't absolutely thrilled about my figure but honestly I should have known better. Hell, even here in the titty board if there is a girl with curves, not even fat just thick, most guys are like shes ok but I like them thinner. And now I'm glad we can talk openly about our weight and neither of us gets pissed at what the other has to say. We've been together for 6 years, plan on getting married so I think you should be allowed to tell the one you love, "hey I kinda like you it would be nice if you took better care of yourself so that I could continue to enjoy your company for a long time"

Sure he fucked up in his delivery but I'm sure he knows it now hes looking for ideas on how to fix this.

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