My little piece of advice is this: if you still love her and want her to be happy don't bring it up anymore. Look at her the way you always have, hopefully with that look in your eyes like she is the only thing you want to be looking at right then. If she wants to have the lights off, then leave them off and be intimate in the same passionate way you always hopefully have.
In my very non professional appearance this will help her self esteem over time. Hopefully to the point where she feels comfortable with herself again and able to tackle her weight issues head on and deal with them.
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