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Tilted Cat Head
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Location: Manhattan, NY
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Strange Famous
He bought her a gym membership, he didnt call her a fat pig to her face and systematically knock down her self esteem (like my dad to to my mum about her weight for example)
I mean, the chances are if she is 60 lbs overweight, she knows she is and feels bad about it. Getting pissed off with this guy is a part of her own defensiveness.
Maybe there are some things which are healthier you can do together? At the end of the day she will only lose weight to if she wants to do it for herself though not cos you want it.
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So if you have crooked teeth and didn't think anything wrong of it, you'd be okay with someone getting you a gift certificate for dental work?
You've had your own bout with weight loss, some girl was interested in you, you'd not take umbrage if she got you an appointment with a doctor to get a gastric bypass?
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