RogueGypsy:
Dude, when some things are done wrong, like cooking for example, you can simply throw out the burnt food, wash the dishes and start again. Simple eh? When it comes to people, and I have only just learned this ... self esteem can be built in years and broken within seconds. Not as simple as cooking.
OP, were not blaming you. But as will be the course of the thread, your now only next action is patience and communication. Do not pressure her, but let her know that you care and even though you love the person that she is already, you also want her to be her best self.
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