Due to bad forms of communication on your part, you have pushed her away. The person she very likely thought would accept her, no matter what she looks like, is not accepting her (at least in her mind) when she most needs it.
Obviously, your intention was not to push her away and you need to let her know that. It's a delicate situation that requires a bit of tact. Just let her know you don't find her less attractive (assuming you don't).
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