I have been in a relation ship for 7 years.
In the last two years my girl friend has gain some weight (around 55 lbs above normal). So i tried a year ago at first to invite her to go for long walks with me or other activity's. I have also tried avoiding unhealthy food and to encourage her to eat more healthy. Just before Christmas i give her a gift certificate to a gym, unfortunately she got very angry about this. The problem now is that she wants to have the light off when we are intimate. she doesn't like to be naked. I am feeling that our relations ship has taken a bad turn. I realize that i can't discuss anything like this again with her. I suppose i was unreasonable, but how do i convince her to be more relaxed? If i give her compliments she just looks at me as i am lying.
