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Originally Posted by Anonymous Member
I'm not sure if it's right of me to ask her if she got her results in because then it'd make it seem like a big deal to me.
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I don't think it is out of line for you to ask about the results. This is obviously a big deal to you, and I think you should be honest about that.
I personally think you're getting a little ahead of yourself.
My advice is find out the results and, regardless of if she has it or not, meet her as planned, take it slow, get to know the girl in real time, and decide if she's worth any problem that may present itself as far as the two of you are concerned.
A herpes scare is not the only issue you will have to sort out if you pursue a relationship. It is a hard one to deal with so early, I'll give it that, but realistically you can't even be sure she's everything you think she is when the computer is out of the picture.
Just take a breath and take your time. There's no need to rush right into sex whether she has herpes or not.