I can relate
Hey Guy,
Same thing happened to me after my ex-wife divorced me. She left me for another guy, so she was already in the other bed you mentioned. I think that is a big part of not being abl to perform. It is in the back ofyour head she found another guy quick and he must be better in bed or she would have taken longer to find someone.
My ex-wife is no Jessica Alba either. She was and is over weight,( like way over not a few pounds were talking like 80) and a total pain in the rear. But still to his day when i see or talk to her i am under some spell and can't shake it.
I didnt have a relationship with another woman for 2 years and the sex was terrible, all my fault. I ended up waiting another year before trying again. I did better this time, but things didn't work out. Has been hit or miss for me since.
One thing that screwed me up in any relationship was the ex wife calling for something, kids, money etc would ruin my focus on the woman iwas with. I would think of the ex-wife, or why she left me, or te guy she is with.
So best thing I can say is just block all that out like it doesn't exist otherwise she'll always have some sort of spell over you.
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