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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
I don't think it's necessarily a natural tendency. After all, many women who are attracted to men are aggressive and dominant.
And submitting doesn't make me feel weak at all - it makes me feel liberated. That is why I like this term that is often used - 'power exchange.' When it is right, the power is fluid and flows between you both, one relying on the other for momentum.
Don't overlook the power you have as a submissive woman. :-)
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Oh what i mean here is that it makes me feel weak and helpless in terms of being in bed with him, not in general and nothing political intended here. I am definitely not the aggressive and dominant type but I will not keep quiet when i feel even slightly threatened or insulted, but like tiny dancer, i
prefer to be more submissive and allow my partner to be more dominant most of the time , but of course depending on the situation.
And i completely agree with you mixedmedia on the 'power exchange' between both. Its true, we've been through alot together for me to feel completely safe around him no matter in what state of being I was in and vice versa for him as well.