Snowy, do you really think I am being harsh? We have person 'A' here who does not do much of any thing, then we have person 'B' here who handles the financial effects ... they have a falling out and person 'B' decides to be spitefull and tells person 'A' to GTFO! Now, were assuming that both people are over 18 years old. Don't you think person 'A' undeserving of the outcome, has only her/him-self to blame?
Manic, I agree. I might be oversimplifyng the current situations on both threads but my outlook remains the same. If all the parties had less time on their hands to goof off, more common sense to know that there really is no other way to live besides work or go to school. There really isn't anything else to do in life.
Trying to cure life's ailments like working by drowning it out with other activities such as booz and drugs or even positive re-inforcements such as exercise is foolish. The reason we go get involved in relationships is to seek out the best in ourselves through others. Other activities exist to make sure we enjoy life more...., or live longer. Case in point, if your in a position of stress, you pretty much put yourself there.
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