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I don't think it's necessarily a natural tendency. After all, many women who are attracted to men are aggressive and dominant.
And submitting doesn't make me feel weak at all - it makes me feel liberated. That is why I like this term that is often used - 'power exchange.' When it is right, the power is fluid and flows between you both, one relying on the other for momentum.
Don't overlook the power you have as a submissive woman. :-)
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