Well first, I would just calm down and wait for the actual test results. A cut isn't an open sore. She could have a completely different, noncommunicable disorder that causes her wounds to heal improperly, and girls do knick themselves from time to time down there when shaving. So bottom line there, chill out heh.
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1). I told her, I still love her and it's not going to change what I think of her...
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Well, if she does have herpes, that's totally out of the question for me on the first day now, or even the first week, so that sucks for me and her because she'll know it's because of the herpes.
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Secondly, to go forward you're going to have to decide how you actually feel about her.
Personally, I don't see how there's any way in the world someone could fall that deeply in love with someone on-line, in only half a year at that, to the point where something so serious as a non-curable disease wouldn't change things. You're not a bad person if her having it affects your opinion of and feelings towards her.