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damn you make it sound like being single is a tragedy! Far from it - you get to have everything your own way and still have fun.
I'm a single gal and I do lots of things with my time. Apart from my regular job, I paint and exhibit in art shows, I sing in bars professionally, I am studying for a masters degree, I also surf occasionally, go to the movies, meet up with friends for drinks, go dancing, go to the beach, read, cook, play with my cats, browse the net, make fun things on my PC, listen to music, go for walks, go to museums and art galleries, music concerts...
Maybe find a hobby that you enjoy, and that may help you meet people, something social.
Being single is not so bad, if you learn to enjoy your own company. If you make some new friends, you'll do fine.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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