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Problem staying hard
I was with my girl last night, and for the first time we were getting down and dirty. Whenever we're laying together watching a movie, I'm hard as hell. But as soon as she starts trying to please me, either by kissing my chest or trying to give me head, I lose it. I get really nervous, and it's a combination of different things. Past experiences didn't go well, I feel like blowjobs are degrading to women, and there's just this general anxiety of trusting the other person.
It really bothers me because the more I thought about it, the worse it got. We had to stop before anything happened. She was understanding and didn't judge me for it, but I feel like I'm half a man for not being able to let her please me. She wants to do it, and I want to experience that with her.
Do you have any recommendations? I know that we need to just go slow and try it, and I know I also need to stop thinking so much. But is there anything else you'd recommend?
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